Making Colombian Women Happy — Dating in Cali Colombia

Valeria Martinez
5 min readJun 21, 2021

Do you want to keep your Colombian girlfriend happy? Not sure how to go about it without messing up?

It is not difficult and expensive to please a girl, especially if she loves you. As a boyfriend, it is your duty to give her more reasons to smile and make her feel loved and special. Though it may be difficult to understand a girl’s emotions, you can try different strategies to make her happy.

Sometimes, it’s the little things that make a woman happy. Just as long as you know the importance of paying attention and how to make someone feel loved, she should be in safe hands.

1. Tell Her You Love Her.

Hold her hand, look deeper into her eyes and say those 3 words. This is the simplest thing to do on this list and yet produces the best results. Telling your lover you love her requires no effort, aside from the sincerity you put into it.

Letting her know how much you love her and how special she is to you won’t even make a dent in your wallet. And yet, it’s going to make her day.

2. Write A Love Letter Or Leave Little Notes.

Giving her something to read that conveys how you think about her is a guarantee to make her happy. It shows that you were thoughtful enough to pick up a pen and write down something that’s solely meant for her.

It also shows that you think about her so much that it makes you write something down.

Leave a few scattered around. Put them in places she often occupies so she finds them right away. Don’t do it all the time, though. The novelty will wear off quickly if you do.

3. Surprise Her With Flowers.

Women have the simplest form of happiness. Sometimes, all it takes to brighten up her day is a bunch of flowers brought to her. Drop a bouquet at her office if she’s working. And if she’s still in Colombia, have one sent to her at random. Give it to her when she least expects it, particularly during a non-holiday.

It’s usually when there’s no occasion or event that brings out the best smiles.

4. Call Her.

At least call her once a day to ask how her day is going or what she is doing. She will appreciate it and will make her feel cared for. Like with the flowers, do it randomly when she least expects it. Just make sure you call her when she isn’t doing something very important. And if you happen to call her when she needs it, then all the better!

5. Cook For Her.

Don’t worry if you aren’t a master chef — it’s the thought, willingness, and effort that counts. If she’s the one doing all the cooking most times, then it would be a nice change if you suddenly did. Just knowing that you would make her a meal is enough to get excited. Cooking for someone makes that person feel loved.

Also, it might be an opportunity for you to show off your own culinary skills.

6. Give Her A Compliment.

Girls love compliments, it makes them feel more appreciated. So when you notice something nice about her, give her the praise she deserves. Tell her that her smile is beautiful. Admire her new attire. If you’ve noticed the new perfume she’s wearing, tell her she smells great! Wax poetry about how great she looks all the time, even.

It’ll make her laugh. Most of all, it will endear her more to you.

7. Hold Her Hand In Public.

A lot of ladies like skinship. Colombian girls, who are bold, passionate and fiery, will appreciate something so sweet and simple. Public hand-holding is a gesture that makes women feel protected and valued. It also shows you aren’t afraid of physical contact even when outside.

Walk down the street with her hand in yours. She’ll like it more if you were the one who initiated it first.

8. Set A Romantic Date.

Whether it’s in a fine dining restaurant, at the movie theater, at the park, or just inside your home — it doesn’t matter. What really matters is that it is romantic. She’ll love it if you take the time to spend the night with her, just the two of you.

If you live far apart, arranging for a date will be all the more exciting. Chatting and messaging can only go far. Seeing each other in person will help you find out if you like each other enough to get serious.

9. Show Her That You’re Interested In Her Interests.

You probably don’t care about the TV show she’s obsessed with. You don’t have to actively participate in all her interests. However, you have to show her that you acknowledge them. Show her some enthusiasm when she talks about them.

People who talk about something they love are really fun to listen to. And if you find yourself starting to get interested in what she was talking about, fantastic! Now you can enjoy what she’s been enjoying.

10. Thank Her For All The Effort She Does.

Never forget to show your gratitude or appreciation whenever she does something special or thoughtful for you. A simple “thank you” can brighten up her day and make all her efforts worth it. Sometimes, simple everyday words are all one needs to make someone happy. If you want to do more than just say your thanks, give her a kiss on the cheek.

Distract her with tiny bits of affection, especially when she’s either cleaning or working.

Be An Honest And Chivalrous Man.

Any girl would feel lucky if the man they’re with is someone who’s honest and is a gentleman. Colombian women love men who know how to take care of them. If you treat her with love and respect, she’ll stay with you for life. It isn’t that hard to make her happy if she’s already smitten with you.

Be a gentleman at all times. Be a man of words. Above all, be a man with character.

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